Within the Army, as with society, you come across people who don’t pull their weight and make the workload for everyone else that much greater. People within your organisation aren’t stupid, they know who these people are and over time develop a growing resentment. Worse still, they resent the leaders who let it happen and […]
Most forms of fear are illusions we create in our own minds. Fear is almost always about what is going to happen next – meaning you are afraid of something that does not currently exist. If the thing you fear does not exist, then it is purely imagined. Suffering from a fear of things that […]
Today is the last day of your working life. You are about to retire. Your work mates and the companies hierarchy have decided to throw you a party to celebrate. As the party starts to taper off, you spot a person you don’t recognise and walk over and introduce yourself. The man appears to be around 70 years […]
There is an old saying that I share with all the sporting teams that encourages them to lift when they are losing momentum during a game. “When a brave person takes a stand, it stiffens the spines of others.” – Billy Graham – To me, this paints a vivid mental picture and is what a […]
The first weekend in October is a big one for all Australian sporting fans. Both the AFL and NRL grand finals are played and the best team is decided after 6 months of blood, sweat and tears from these dedicated athletes. Whether you are a sporting fan or not, if you watch closely, you will be […]
In my final weeks before discharging from the Army, I was scalded and threatened by a Major walking nearby because I didn’t solute him. It wasn’t through disrespect, but more so a matter of being in my own little world, concentrating on what I was doing and oblivious to seeing him walk past. The way […]
Well over a decade ago I was approached by the Townsville Crocodiles Mens Basketball team and asked to run the players through a few team building sessions and several activities to take them outside of their comfort zones. The objective of the three day activity was to provide the players with a different perspective to training and […]
Just one letter (and an apostrophe) marks the difference between these words; however, their meanings and how you use them can be the difference between a successful life and an unfulfilled one. How you see yourself and the understanding of what you are truly capable of as a human being are two of the most important things in […]
You would have heard me say this before, “your life is a one-horse race. The only person you compete against is the best possible version of yourself. ” In a team environment though, I am a firm believer in finding an enemy or rival opposition. Having an enemy provides increased motivation, raises performance, ignites creativity and […]
Every successful person has a great deal of confidence or faith in his/her ability to achieve the goal at hand. Having confidence doesn’t mean you present yourself as being cocky, but rather that you express yourself with a great deal of absurdness and confidence. Having self-confidence is not only a positive feature and quality to have in […]